What do girls really think about crossdressers?

[rosem01]

I am strongly attracted to women (not men!), and sexually I need to have a female partner. On the other hand there are times when my feminine side needs to be expressed. At those times I want to dress and be loved as a woman by a dominant female partner. I love the feel of satin and silk. I need a long term female partner who will appreciate my behaviour perhaps because she has emotional and sexual needs of her own.
How do girls react to that?

rosem01

[faceoflove (former member)]

."Hatefully" has been my experience. But then I live in Mayberry RFD. My experience with straight women is total rejection. My experience with lesbians is near total rejection. I have a lot of experience with being suicidally lonely.

[mary20603]

`i agree with face of love! My ex divorced me over it and even blackmailed me as well. My currant spouse knows but detest dramamtically. I have tried numerous sites get a few nibbles but most real ladies cant stand us and I have no idea why

[msprrrr]

`I'm separated several years, dated a lot and have found there are a few who don't mind... the one I seem to see the most has a gay brother who was once a CD, she's very open minded, lets me wear my nylons and skirt whenever I want, sometimes I dress up all the way, and she's worn one of my wigs. My ex wife just couldn't tolerate this and I think it was one reason we split. Women have admitted to me that there are a fair number of guys who do like to at the very least, wear nylons... Just gotta find the right woman of course, but it's a bit embarassing to open up on this.

[wendyh]

I too have experienced only disgust from straight females. I just wonder what makes me a crossdresser, it just feels so right. My male side is male and I am straight, but when I dress as a woman it is just wonderful. I adore women same as any other straight guy, love to hear which category in which I fit! I'm closet and been wanting to do this for so long, although it cost me my marriage once found out. I rejected it for so long but realise it is part of me, however I have no desire to go transexual.

Thanks for reading

W.

[piscesdream]

`Where are these sites? I'm a woman and I love crossdressers. Men in panties make me h*rny and I enjoy being dominant (not in a painful way) in the bedroom.

[danielau (former member)]

`i agree totally most women dont like it but would be awesome to find one who does heres to hoping

[taracross82 (former member)]

`I love to dress and my ex talked me into it, so i used to bring up the idea and she hated it. If it was her idea than everything was fine, to make a long story short, her and i broke up in september, i was forced to live with family and have not fully dressed up since june, i miss it alot and it would be nice to find a place to be the woman i want when i want.

[bethc]

From my experience telling a straight woman that you like to dress, is like sticking your finger down her throat because she is going to toss her lunch at the very least. If you tell them up front they immediately introduce you to the only gay person they know. If you wait to tell them, they accuse you of lying and misrepresenting then do the same as if you told them up front. I have known 2 women that were put in the hospital by abusive husbands, yet, when told lost lunch and would not come within 100 miles of me. And fashion for women is turning sex neutral-- days can go by before you see a woman in a dress.

bethc

[soran]

`If I were you, I would date in the bisexual/pansexual realm because those individuals tend to be more open and accepting of everyone no matter who they are. I really hope you can find people who will accept you for who you are and not end up hurting or rejecting you.